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Loading ...After my Bangladeshi father found out I had a boyfriend of two years, he emailed me the following…
I wrote the following on september after hearing you illicit relation but did not mailed because I have thought that you are intelegent enough to choose yourself what is good for you and your family.
Mamy:
How are you.
Bye the way After your broke up other guys who knew your previous one probably try to lure you for “dateing” so be careful. You should not close with those women who do casual dating. Never do that again. There is a proverb If you are in sandy beech send will be all over your body and so does it blacken you if you are in a coalmine. Environment do change peoples and their behaviour. So We need to chose right environment.
In indean culture boys get pride and get way with it by luring so called easy girl in dating. I cannot even think about my daughter is a easy prey. I thought that I show you a moral example by my own personal character so does your mom. It never be a cool idea in my socal and family background. It should never be yours.
You arer mature now never involve in a relation where ” so called date game involve” It will be very bad for your future relation with a serious person who like to start a family from our social background. After all I serious person will not like to have a relation with so called easy type women or men. I would never so Does you or your brother. After all I want you have family and so does you.
We are here in washington, DC. Why you are lonely that you need some one for closeness I do not under stand. If you can not decipline yourself than what is the difference between you and all those people who went wrong way in getos. I got married when I was in almost thirty years old, your mammy was 23. Respect me. Respect your mother and respect yourself Please!
I am feeling very sad and sorry I have to send an e-mail writing these. You have to find out what is good for you. Never do mistake one after another. Most of these Indean friends will be lost after your college graduation. That happens to Imon
Any way Be careful take care yourself do not ruin your life.
With love,
Baba